I Just Called to See How Things are Going
This is a sad story. Sad but true. It was a real conversation,
ostensibly a sales conversation. This sales conversation, and many
others just like it, are happening all over the world. I recount this
sad sales conversation here in hope that we may all learn from it:
I Just Called to See How Things are Going
By Wendy Weiss, The Queen of Cold Calling
Sales Representative: “I just called to see how things are going.”
Wendy: “Things are going fine. Why are you calling?”
Sales Representative: “I just called to see how things are.”
Wendy: “Things are fine.”
Sales Representative: “OK. Well I’m here if you need me.”
Wendy: “Why should I need you?”
As it turns out, the company this young man represented was supposed to
be scheduling a demo of a product for my staff and for me. My wonderful
assistant, Erin, usually takes care of scheduling for these types of
events. When the rep called, I was working on a program that had an
approaching deadline. This company’s demo was the last thing on my mind.
I didn’t make the connection and I had absolutely no idea why this rep
was calling me. Clearly, neither did he.
“I just called to see how things are going” has to be the lamest
follow-up question of all time. Although, it is running neck and neck
with, “I just called to follow-up.” Neither question elicits any
information, neither moves the sales process forward and both are
frequently annoying to your prospect who has absolutely no idea why you
have called.
Now in all fairness, this rep was not the original contact and perhaps
the original contact did not give him all of the background. In that
case, he should have first asked the original contact some questions:
“What is the purpose/goal of my call?” “What is the history here?”
“Where are we with this prospect?” “What is the next step for this
prospect?” Any of these would have sufficed. Then this representative
would have had a focus and a goal for his call.
The rule is: Never make a call to your prospect without having a goal in
mind. When you hang up the telephone, what do you want to have
accomplished? Do you want to gather information? Do you want the
prospect to commit to some action? Do you want agreement on the next
step in your sales process? Once you have your goal in mind you can then
figure out the appropriate approach. (Hint: “I just called to see how
things are going” is not it.)
Here’s an approach that you can use to set up your follow up calls. I
call it the “Instant Recap/Guilt Technique.” It goes like this:
Instant Recap
“Hello (prospect’s name goes here.) This is (your name) from (your
company.) We spoke on (date goes here) and discussed (fill in whatever
you discussed.)”
Guilt
“You asked me to call you (or ‘We agreed that I’d call’) to discuss
(fill in the blank with your next step.)”
The “Instant Recap” brings your prospect back to your last conversation.
Your prospect may or may not remember that conversation and when you are
prospecting, you don’t want to count on your prospect’s memory. Help
your prospect out by recapping your last conversation.
The “Guilt Technique” then explains why you are calling. There had been
a previous conversation, outlined in the “Instant Recap” and now you are
doing what you had promised to do, call your prospect.
This “Instant Recap/Guilt Technique” works very nicely to set you up to
have your next conversation with a prospect. If you are following up
with a prospect who was originally contacted by someone else you can
adapt the “Instant Recap/Guilt Technique” as follows:
Instant Recap
“Hello (prospect’s name goes here.) This is (your name) from (your
company.) You spoke with my colleague, (colleague’s name goes here) on
(date goes here) and discussed (fill in whatever was discussed.)”
Guilt
“You asked us to call you to discuss (fill in the blank with your next
step.)”
This is how the unfortunate sales rep reference above should have
proceeded. Unfortunately for all, he did not.
Let’s have no more sad stories of sales reps calling to “see how things
are going.” Instead, let’s have productive, focused conversations with
prospects that move the sales process forward. “I am visualizing you all
surrounded by cash.”
Wendy Weiss, “The Queen of Cold Calling,” is a sales trainer, author and
sales coach. Her recently released program, “The Miracle
Appointment-Setting Script,” and/or her book, “Cold Calling for Women,”
can be ordered by visiting queenofcoldcalling.com. Contact her at
wendy@wendyweiss.com. Get Wendy’s free Special Report, “Getting in the
Door: How to Write an Effective Cold Calling Script,” at
(c) 2008 Wendy Weiss
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Last 5 posts by Wendy Weiss
- 8 Questions to Ask Yourself in a Recession - February 24th, 2009
- Five Tips for Selling in Tough Times - January 15th, 2009
- Five Tips for Selling in Tough Times - November 14th, 2008
- What separates the people who are amazingly successful from those who struggle? - October 2nd, 2008
- Finding Leads (for Free) for Your Cold Calling Campaign - July 8th, 2008

